Get Your Ex Back

If you’re trying to get your ex back after a break up, you probably have a whole bunch of your stuff at their house.  I know I did after my ex (now fiance) broke up with me.

Now, if you’re at all like me, you probably think that that’s a really great thing and that it’ll help you get your ex back.  That’s what I thought– that he would keep on seeing my things and start thinking about me and of the good times when we were together, and that he would start missing me.

But the truth is that it really doesn’t work like that.  If your ex broke up with you, then right now they’re not so positively inclined towards you, especially if you’ve been trying to get back together.

So yeah, whenever they see you’re things, they will probably think of you, but it’s not going to be about how much they miss you, but how much they want you out of their life… and that’s obviously not going to help you get your ex back.

But let me tell you how you can use all those things of yours that are sitting all over their house to your advantage.

Call your ex and tell them that you want to come over and pick up your things.

Don’t get all chatty or anything, just be straight and simple and ask when a good time to come over is.

Before you go over, make sure that you look good, but casual, not like you put any effort into it.  And don’t smell like smoke or beer or anything.

When your ex opens the door, come inside and ask where your things are.  If they’re already together in a bag for you, great.  If not, go around the house and get them together as fast and businesslike as you can.

If your ex makes small talk or asks about you, you can answer, but make like you want to get out of there fast.  Do NOT ask if they’re seeing anyone else now.  That will make it so obvious that you’re really trying to get your ex back.

If you can manage to get you and your things out of there without getting into a conversation or seeming like you still care, that is amazing.  It is really going to help you to get your ex back because they are going to be going crazy trying to figure out why you were so distant and if you are really over them, and they are going to start regretting the break up.

This made such a big difference in my getting my boyfriend back, and it’ll really help you get your ex back too.